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Sunday, August 3, 2025

Sunday Morning Sip

 Good Day to All!!! 

 

 
 
 
Defines my career of 36 years. 

Stay home.  I like stay home. 


Good day for a martini! 


And frequently, without even trying! 

And wind-powered!


Old cartoon, but why does it look like Stephen Colbert on the rack? 




I agree, 1000%!!!   

...and old enough to know that is called 
a "telegrapher".  I worked retail in the early 80's...

 
I want you to grow up, too.  But I also want you
to be a kid.  To live without fear beyond the 
monsters under the bed, 
not in the real ones in the world.
To thrive and mature.
In your good time. 
 
 💝
 
12 years ago today, six months after it became legal in our State of Rhode Island
(and before the rest of the country got on board),
I got to say "I do!" and marry my best friend,
in our home, surrounded by close friends and family. 
(My craft work) 
Thus forever changing our (then) 15 year "Domestic Partnership".
Marriage does change everything. 
Marriage made it official; all embracing... honest... candid.  
Amazing how, when you have that band of gold around your finger, 
you realize that person is now and forever beyond just being a partner.
 
  The cake
 
This is the man whom I have gone to bed 
and woken up next to every night for 27 years.  
Whom I am growing old next to. 
As I feel and embrace my frailties of age.
Witnessing his manifesting. 
Knowing he's who I want to be next to,
sharing as much of this life as we can, 
that we are going to be there for each other.
 
Love you, Honey. 
 
Our wedding song.
 
Still holds true today. 

 
 
 

 
 

3 comments:

Moving with Mitchell said...

Happy anniversary!

Debra She Who Seeks said...

Happy Wedding Anniversary! Enjoy your Special Day together!

Milleson said...

Wow! Your anniversary tribute speaks volumes about you, the man you've become over the years and the love you proudly share with your husband and the world. Congrats, your floral wedding invitation and the cake are simple and elegant at the same time.